This question – what are the decisions I would have to make if I did truly seek the cessation of suffering? – is one I am starting to face. If you put that goal at the centre of your life it could become too much of a personal desire in itself. If you don’t, it’s too easy to try and have it all. Maybe it’s better to think in terms of turning away from things that deplete you and turning towards the connection – the source – that supports you. But I’m finding it very difficult to find these decisions that need to be made and then to make them.